Stop Hating, Start Loving

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Arranged Marriage

I Learnt

Truth about Private Organizations

Being Single is Fun But Being in Love with is just Out of the World

Being single is fun but being in love with is just out of the world
When you wake up you find 'Good
Morning Baby' in your inbox... When
you're all alone, sick or lost...
You need just that person with you...To hold
you in his/her arms...
Those small-small fights you have..
Saying " I'm not going to talk to you"
But, still checking your phone to see the
missed calls or texts from him/her... Waking up suddenly in the middle of the
night and calling him/her...
staying up, talking till 4am...
Those sweet memories...
After a fight saying "Sorry baby"
Then fighting over whose mistake it was...
When you call him/her & if it says 'is
busy with another call, please wait' you
find it frustrating...
But, then reading his/her texts makes
you smile like an idiot... the fear of caught by friends & family...
but, the excitement of being with him/her..
Imagining your future together...
Cuddling him/her... hugging.. kissing.. just
staying with each other.. Nowadays we often hear people say
love hurts... well, Yes, it hurts sometimes, but, all it's worth it...
Honestly, according to me,

BEING IN LOVE IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING IN THE WORLD

How People Change

They Will Talk To You
Will Become Closer To You
Will Be Your Friend
Will Become Special
Will Become More Than Nothing
Will Keep On Telling That
I Cant Live Without You.
I Need You
I Really Miss You
And On & On & On...

Everything Will Be Going Fine
Suddenly They Will Get A New
Person In There Life
In Beginning
They Will Tell You About That Person,
They Will Slowly Stop Talking About That Person,
They Will Hide Things & Stop Sharing Anything.
If You Call, They Will Say I Will Call You Later...

LITTLE BUSY Will Talk Later.

Then They Will Never Call You ,
You Will Think That Person Is Busy But
ACTUALLY YOU HAVE LOST Him/Her

A Bitter Reality

As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in Software Engineering and joined a company based in USA, the land of braves and opportunity. When I arrived in the USA, it was as if a dream had come true.

Here at last I was in the place where I want to be. I decided I would be staying in this country for about Five years in which time I would have earned enough money to settle down in India.

My father was a government employee and after his retirement,

the only asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat.

I wanted to do some thing more than him. I started feeling homesick and lonely as the time passed. I used to call home and speak to my parents every week using cheap international phone cards. Two years passed, two years of Burgers at McDonald's and pizzas and discos and 2 years watching the foreign exchange rate getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down.

Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents that I have only 10 days of holidays and everything must be done within these 10 days. I got my ticket booked in the cheapest flight. Was jubilant and was actually enjoying hopping for gifts for all my friends back home. If I miss anyone then there will be talks. After reaching home I spent home one week going through all the photographs of girls and as the time was getting shorter I was forced to select one candidate.

In-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would have to get
married in 2-3 days, as I will not get anymore holidays. After
the marriage, it was time to return to USA, after giving some
money to my parents and telling the neighbors to look after
them, we returned to USA.


My wife enjoyed this country for about two months and then she
started feeling lonely. The frequency of calling India
increased to twice in a week sometimes 3 times a week. Our
savings started diminishing.

After two more years we started to have kids. Two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were gifted to us by the almighty. Every time I spoke to my parents, they asked
me to come to India so that they can see their grand-children.

Every year I decide to go to India… But part work part monetary conditions prevented it. Years went by and visiting India was a distant dream. Then suddenly one day I got a message that my parents were seriously sick. I tried but I couldn't get any holidays and thus could not go to India ... The next message I got was my parents had passed away and as there was no one to do the last rights the society members had done whatever they could. I was depressed. My parents had passed away without seeing their grand children.

After couple more years passed away, much to my children's dislike and my wife's joy we returned to India to settle down. I started to look for a suitable property, but to my dismay my savings were short and the property prices had gone up during all these years. I had to return to the USA...

My wife refused to come back with me and my children refused to stay in India... My 2 children and I returned to USA after promising my wife I would be back for good after two years.

Time passed by, my daughter decided to get married to an American and my son was happy living in USA... I decided that had enough and wound-up every thing and returned to India... I had just enough money to buy a decent 02 bedroom flat in a well-developed locality.

Now I am 60 years old and the only time I go out of the flat is for the routine visit to the nearby temple. My faithful wife has also left me and gone to the holy abode.

Sometimes
I wondered was it worth all this?
My father, even after staying in India,
Had a house to his name and I too have the same nothing more.

I lost my parents and children for just ONE EXTRA BEDROOM.

Looking out from the window I see a lot of children dancing.
This damned cable TV has spoiled our new generation and these children are losing their values and culture because of it. I get occasional cards from my children asking I am alright. Well at least they remember me.

Now perhaps after I die it will be the neighbors again who will be performing my last rights, God Bless them.

But the question still remains 'was all this worth it?'
I am still searching for an answer.................!!!

START THINKING
IS IT JUST FOR ONE EXTRA BEDROOM???
LIFE IS BEYOND THIS ….., DON'T JUST LEAVE YOUR LIFE ……!!!!
START LIVING IT …….!!!
LIVE IT AS YOU WANT IT TO BE ……!!!

If you see me walking with SomeOne Else

If you see me walking with someone else
It's not because I want to
It's because you weren't brave enough to walk by me
If you see me smile
It's not because I forgot you
It's because I got tired of crying for you
If you see me living again
It's not because I've moved on
It's because I hate the fact you can live without me
So if I fall in love with someone else
It's not because I want to
It's because you weren't there to catch me