How People Change

They Will Talk To You
Will Become Closer To You
Will Be Your Friend
Will Become Special
Will Become More Than Nothing
Will Keep On Telling That
I Cant Live Without You.
I Need You
I Really Miss You
And On & On & On...

Everything Will Be Going Fine
Suddenly They Will Get A New
Person In There Life
In Beginning
They Will Tell You About That Person,
They Will Slowly Stop Talking About That Person,
They Will Hide Things & Stop Sharing Anything.
If You Call, They Will Say I Will Call You Later...

LITTLE BUSY Will Talk Later.

Then They Will Never Call You ,
You Will Think That Person Is Busy But
ACTUALLY YOU HAVE LOST Him/Her

A Bitter Reality

As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in Software Engineering and joined a company based in USA, the land of braves and opportunity. When I arrived in the USA, it was as if a dream had come true.

Here at last I was in the place where I want to be. I decided I would be staying in this country for about Five years in which time I would have earned enough money to settle down in India.

My father was a government employee and after his retirement,

the only asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat.

I wanted to do some thing more than him. I started feeling homesick and lonely as the time passed. I used to call home and speak to my parents every week using cheap international phone cards. Two years passed, two years of Burgers at McDonald's and pizzas and discos and 2 years watching the foreign exchange rate getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down.

Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents that I have only 10 days of holidays and everything must be done within these 10 days. I got my ticket booked in the cheapest flight. Was jubilant and was actually enjoying hopping for gifts for all my friends back home. If I miss anyone then there will be talks. After reaching home I spent home one week going through all the photographs of girls and as the time was getting shorter I was forced to select one candidate.

In-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would have to get
married in 2-3 days, as I will not get anymore holidays. After
the marriage, it was time to return to USA, after giving some
money to my parents and telling the neighbors to look after
them, we returned to USA.


My wife enjoyed this country for about two months and then she
started feeling lonely. The frequency of calling India
increased to twice in a week sometimes 3 times a week. Our
savings started diminishing.

After two more years we started to have kids. Two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were gifted to us by the almighty. Every time I spoke to my parents, they asked
me to come to India so that they can see their grand-children.

Every year I decide to go to India… But part work part monetary conditions prevented it. Years went by and visiting India was a distant dream. Then suddenly one day I got a message that my parents were seriously sick. I tried but I couldn't get any holidays and thus could not go to India ... The next message I got was my parents had passed away and as there was no one to do the last rights the society members had done whatever they could. I was depressed. My parents had passed away without seeing their grand children.

After couple more years passed away, much to my children's dislike and my wife's joy we returned to India to settle down. I started to look for a suitable property, but to my dismay my savings were short and the property prices had gone up during all these years. I had to return to the USA...

My wife refused to come back with me and my children refused to stay in India... My 2 children and I returned to USA after promising my wife I would be back for good after two years.

Time passed by, my daughter decided to get married to an American and my son was happy living in USA... I decided that had enough and wound-up every thing and returned to India... I had just enough money to buy a decent 02 bedroom flat in a well-developed locality.

Now I am 60 years old and the only time I go out of the flat is for the routine visit to the nearby temple. My faithful wife has also left me and gone to the holy abode.

Sometimes
I wondered was it worth all this?
My father, even after staying in India,
Had a house to his name and I too have the same nothing more.

I lost my parents and children for just ONE EXTRA BEDROOM.

Looking out from the window I see a lot of children dancing.
This damned cable TV has spoiled our new generation and these children are losing their values and culture because of it. I get occasional cards from my children asking I am alright. Well at least they remember me.

Now perhaps after I die it will be the neighbors again who will be performing my last rights, God Bless them.

But the question still remains 'was all this worth it?'
I am still searching for an answer.................!!!

START THINKING
IS IT JUST FOR ONE EXTRA BEDROOM???
LIFE IS BEYOND THIS ….., DON'T JUST LEAVE YOUR LIFE ……!!!!
START LIVING IT …….!!!
LIVE IT AS YOU WANT IT TO BE ……!!!

If you see me walking with SomeOne Else

If you see me walking with someone else
It's not because I want to
It's because you weren't brave enough to walk by me
If you see me smile
It's not because I forgot you
It's because I got tired of crying for you
If you see me living again
It's not because I've moved on
It's because I hate the fact you can live without me
So if I fall in love with someone else
It's not because I want to
It's because you weren't there to catch me

Whenever things will go wrong

Whenever things will go wrong

I know you will always be there

And your love will make me strong

It will always be just you who'll care

No wonder I love you and I always will

Because you have me and you're all I've got

And I wish that this moment stays still

Because when you go away I miss you a lot..!!

I need you, Darling

I need you, darling
I love you so much
I spend my time dreaming of your tender touch
Life is so beautiful but nothing equals this
I thrill to the thought of your precious kiss
In you, I found something that I never knew--
Each day is more beautiful when someone loves you
And I'm so thankful for this gift of love
You're everything that I ever dreamed of

U & Me and Candle Light

U & Me and Candle Light
Hand in hand
Eyes stuck in one another's eyes
Lips can't move eyes can't blink

How can we let this moment pass

Let's hold this forever

Let me be the one for you
Because you are the one for me

Let us be together forever

So that no body can ever make us apart
We live in each others heart

Let these beautiful things start
Let me be your wife and give me your heart!

Why We Shout In Anger

A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges to take bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other.

He turned to his disciples smiled 'n asked.

'Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?'

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout.'

'But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you?

You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.' asked the saint

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples.
Finally the saint explained, .

'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot.

To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other.

The angrier they are,

the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

What happens when two people fall in love?

They don't shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close.

The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small...'

The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens?

They do not speak, only whisper 'n they get even closer to each other in their love.

Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other 'n that's all.

That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

He looked at his disciples 'n said.

'So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant,

Do not say words that distance each other more,

Or else there will come a day when

the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.'

When I First Met You

When I first met you,
I would never have imagined that I would have such strong feelings for you,
I never thought that I would dream about you;
or miss being by your side
or even get butterflies in my stomach when someone mentions your name.
When I first met you,
I never would have thought that I'd love you like I do.

Mom

My mom only had one eye. I hated her.
She was such an embarrassment.
She cooked for students and teachers to support the family.

There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to say hello to me.
I was so embarrassed.

How could she do this to me?
I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out.
The next day at school one of my classmates said, ‘EEEE, your mom only has one eye!’

I wanted to bury myself. I also wanted my mom to just disappear.
I confronted her that day and said,

‘ If you’re only gonna make me a laughing stock, why don’t you just die?’

My mom did not respond.
I didn’t even stop to think for a second about what I had said,
because I was full of anger. I was oblivious to her feelings.

I wanted out of that house, and have nothing to do with her.

So I studied real hard, got a chance to go abroad to study.

Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. I had kids of my own.

I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts.

Then one day, my Mother came to visit me.

She hadn’t seen me in years and she didn’t even meet her grandchildren.

When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her,

and I yelled at her for coming over uninvited.

I screamed at her, ‘How dare you come to my house and scare my children!’

GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!’

And to this, my mother quietly answered, ‘Oh, I’m so sorry.

I may have gotten the wrong address,’ and she disappeared out of sight.

One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house.

So I lied to my wife that I was going on a business trip.

After the reunion, I went to the old shack just out of curiosity.

My neighbors said that she died. I did not shed a single tear.

They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have.

‘My dearest son,

I think of you all the time. I’m sorry that I came to your house and scared your children.

I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion.

But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you.

I’m sorry that I was a constant embarrassment to you when you were growing up.

You see.. when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye.

As a mother, I couldn’t stand watching you having to grow up with one eye.

So I gave you mine.

I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me,

in my place, with that eye.

With all my love to you,
Your mother.’

Give Your Best To Relationships

A boy and a girl were playing together.

The boy had a collection of marbles.

The girl had some sweets with her.

The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets.

The girl agreed.

The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl.

The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised.

That night, the girl slept peacefully.

But the boy couldn’t sleep as he kept wondering if

the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story:
If you don’t give your hundred percent in a relationship,

you’ll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.

This is applicable for any relationship like love, employer-employee relationship etc..

Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully.